Sexually literate partner and sexual altruist
Among our compatriots, it is widely believed that a man has good “sexual strength” (potency) if he has the following characteristics:
1. Strong sexual desire.
2. Strong and frequent erections.
3. Sufficient duration of sexual intercourse.
In fact, all this is completely insufficient. Such a man who has a strong sexual desire, a good erection and is capable of prolonged sexual intercourse will not satisfy almost three quarters of women if, apart from introducing the penis into the vagina and frictional movements, he can do nothing more.
The sexual virtues of a man as a partner are as follows:
- the ability to delicately and tactfully treat a woman so as not to offend her moral feelings, attract her to herself and at the same time the ability to affectionately insist on new positions of sexual intercourse or new erotic caresses, even if the partner is embarrassed or opposed;
- knowledge of all erotic caresses and ways of sexual satisfaction of a woman, in addition to sexual intercourse;
- the ability for a long time to carry out erotic caresses (stimulation of erogenous zones) in the prelude to sexual intercourse;
- the ability to find all erogenous zones of a woman independently or with her help and effectively influence them in the preparatory period to achieve the greatest excitement of a woman;
- the ability to maintain an erection throughout the prelude until intercourse;
- knowledge of all the most popular postures of sexual intercourse and the ability to choose and offer a woman an optimal position in order to insert the penis into the vagina during intercourse as deep as possible;
- the ability to correct the mismatch in the size of the genital organs (her and her partner) using the technique of sexual intercourse;
- the ability to perform frictional movements in the frequency and amplitude that are most optimal for the partner (energetic, fast, deep, or vice versa, slow and shallow, if the male penis significantly exceeds the length of the female vagina in size).
- the ability to direct the head of the penis to the cervix of the partner with the help of various poses and their options, the use of pads placed under different parts of the body, raising or crossing the legs of the partner (the art of correction of sexual intercourse);
- knowledge of the technique of prolonged sexual intercourse, the ability to have sexual intercourse of such a duration that is necessary to satisfy a woman with a vaginal variant of orgasm;
- the ability to combine frictional movements of the penis in the vagina with stimulation of the partner’s clitoris, for women with a mixed, vaginal-clitorical version of orgasm, or with stimulation of the vagus erogenous zone, if it gives the woman the most powerful sensations;
- knowledge of gentle oral caresses on the woman’s clitoris, the ability to determine the necessary frequency and amplitude of the tongue’s movements on the clitoris, which are required for this particular partner, and the ability to use them to achieve the highest peak of pleasure — for women with a clitorical version of orgasm;
- the ability to bring a woman to orgasm even before having sexual intercourse – if the main erogenous zone is the clitoris or zone S (see the chapter on erogenous zones);
- the ability to achieve the closest contact between the bodies of partners during intercourse, so that the woman’s clitoris is more irritated about the man’s pubis;
- the ability to calculate sexual affection in such a way as to achieve simultaneous orgasm in both, at least sometimes;
- the ability to give a woman the opportunity to experience more orgasms than himself;
- the ability to carry out final caresses after sexual intercourse, so that the woman was satisfied not only physically, but also psychologically.
See how much you need to know and be able to be considered a good sexual partner. As you can see, not a single word is said about the size of a man’s penis. In fact, this is of very relative importance, since any discrepancies can be corrected using sexual intercourse poses. Even if a man has a short penis, then this is also not fatal. There are special poses for deeper penetration of the penis into the vagina and other ways that will give a woman the opportunity to experience pleasure.
A man can master sexual technology on his own, “trial and error.” But for this it is very important that he love his sexual partner, have a strong sexual attraction for her and really want to give her maximum pleasure. In such cases, it is not the sexual technique itself that becomes significant, but the highest moral feeling. Ectaz, who experiences a partner during sexual encounters, is regarded by a man as a proof of his love for her.